Indeed, what could be better than this?
As a Christian critic of the adoption and orphan care
movement, I’d say that getting it right about the Bible and adoption would be
better. Warning Christians about the
prevalence of abusive adoption practices would be better.
There are two basic truths that the movement has yet to
engage in a meaningful way:
The first is that the Bible does not support the movement’s claims. The movement claims that American-style adoption of orphan children is a central and Biblical representation of the gospel, and the primary Biblical metaphor for understanding our relationship, as redeemed sinners, to God. The movement claims that the Bible teaches a mandate to either adopt orphans, or assist persons or organizations in doing so. If you want to understand why I claim that the Bible teaches no such things, you can read my article, "A Scriptural and Theological Critique of the Evangelical Christian Adoption and Orphan Care Movement" and judge for yourself:
The first is that the Bible does not support the movement’s claims. The movement claims that American-style adoption of orphan children is a central and Biblical representation of the gospel, and the primary Biblical metaphor for understanding our relationship, as redeemed sinners, to God. The movement claims that the Bible teaches a mandate to either adopt orphans, or assist persons or organizations in doing so. If you want to understand why I claim that the Bible teaches no such things, you can read my article, "A Scriptural and Theological Critique of the Evangelical Christian Adoption and Orphan Care Movement" and judge for yourself:
The second truth is that abusive adoption practices have
haunted adoption for a very long time, and continue to haunt it today. Child
laundering scandals over the last ten to fifteen years permeating adoptions
from Cambodia, China, Ethiopia, Guatemala, India, Nepal, Samoa, and Vietnam,
remain unaddressed, with new abuses emerging in the Democratic Republic of the
Congo (DRC) and Uganda. Adult adoptees from South Korea researching
their roots commonly find that the information in their paperwork is
false. Recent revelations of babies
falsely declared dead and then sold in Spain are just now coming into public
view. The baby-scoop era of coerced
adoptions from unwed mothers, with echoes surviving to this day, is an
international phenomenon, impacting Australia, Canada, Ireland, the U.K., and
the United States. The infamous Georgia
Tann baby-selling scandal in Tennessee, which focused attention in the
mid-twentieth century on the problem of baby-selling, led to new legislation
but failed to clarify the line between legitimate and illegitimate uses of
money in adoption. The butter-box baby
adoption scandal, operating between Canada and the United States, focused
attention on profiteering at the expense of the lives of infants, a theme
repeated in the Cambodian and other more recent adoption scandals. Abusive adoption practices have impacted
hundreds of thousands of people, at a minimum, over the last seventy years, and
yet the Christian adoption movement seems to have collective amnesia on this
topic, usually only providing vague admonitions to guard against corruption and
pick a good agency---vain precepts when abusive adoption practices have been
endemic in adoptions from licensed and legitimate agencies, including those
that are explicitly Christian.
Another hard truth neglected by the movement: the entire way our law and culture
conceptualizes adoption in the United States---the “as if” sealed records
system that pretends that adopted children were born to their adoptive parents
and never had or will have any other family---is NOT Biblical and is contrary
to the way that many cultures understand adoptive relationships. Yet, the movement does not seem to have
even begun to address the differences between Biblical models of adoption, and
the forms of adoption in which the movement uncritically participates.
I’m putting this out there as a challenge, ahead of Saddleback. Prove me wrong. At least teach (rather than ignore) the
controversy on adoption and the Bible. Include detailed and honest briefings on how Ethiopian
children with intact families are
being adopted as purported “orphans” into the United States. Explain how adoption agencies have
frightened and shamed families into silence about malnutrition and maltreatment
in the orphanages in which they work. Talk about the cases of children kidnapped
from their families in Guatemala and then adopted into the United States, and
the wider context which have put ethical and legal question marks around over
twenty thousand Guatemalan adoptions. Help participants understand the complexities
of adoption from China, and the increasing evidence that orphanages have been
buying babies since at least 2000. Describe how American dollars have corrupted
adoptions in country after country, and then explain why the adoption movement
continues to resist enforceable limitations on the financial aspects of
adoption. Talk about the role of
churches in manipulating, pressuring, coercing and forcing unwed mothers to
give up their children during the baby scoop era and sometimes beyond: and include some such mothers as
speakers. Include as speakers adoptees
who are critical of adoption practices, and who explain from personal
experience the identity, loss, and anger issues many of their fellow adoptees face.
From reviewing the conference topics, one can see that there
are some suitable warnings at Saddleback. Based on the workshops offered on attachment,
mental health and medical issues, I presume that many will hear about the
severe difficulties often involved in adopting post-institutionalized children
and other special needs children. I
presume that many will learn that adoptive families who adopt from the foster
care system, or adopt older children from anywhere, are likely to need special
help and support. Hopefully the movement
has learned not to expect adopted children to be happy little angels grateful
for being “saved” by their adoptive parents.
Yet, the movement’s theology that positions adoptive families in the
place of God within the
vertical/horizontal adoption redemption analogy, while by contrast positioning
the pre-American lives and connections of adoptees as analogous to slavery or
the old sin nature, may make it difficult for adoptive families to understand
why adoptees express loss and fail to be suitably “grateful.”
I am grateful for the effective “orphan care” ministries
that really have nothing to do with adoption; I am grateful that the movement
is getting much broader than its roots in adoption. I appreciate that some adoptions really do
take some children from desperately bad situations and place them into loving
families. But the fact that adoption
and orphan care can sometimes be done well is not an excuse to gather together
and collectively ignore so many of the hard issues and hard questions.
Finally, I am grateful that a Christian dialogue about the
Christian adoption and orphan care movement is beginning, as will be reflected
in a forthcoming issue of the Journal of Christian Legal Thought (links will be posted on this blog when it is published). I just wish that this dialogue was already
something occurring within the movement
itself as represented by its keynote
events. Promoting adoption naivety
at major Christian adoption conferences suggests either that the leaders
themselves remain naïve about some critically important issues, or else that
they think it is best to keep their followers such. Instead, my suggestion is to trust the movement and the members with the
controversy and with the true difficulties involved in doing orphan care
and adoption well and Biblically.
David
Christian Alliance for Orphans Summit VIII, Saddleback Church, May 3-4, 2012
Of Orphans and Adoption, Parents and the Poor, Exploitation and Rescue: A Scriptural and Theological Critique of the Evangelical Christian Adoption and Orphan Care Movement, David Smolin, bepress, publication forthcoming in Regent Journal of International Law, Vol 8, No 2, Spring 2012.
David
Christian Alliance for Orphans Summit VIII, Saddleback Church, May 3-4, 2012
Of Orphans and Adoption, Parents and the Poor, Exploitation and Rescue: A Scriptural and Theological Critique of the Evangelical Christian Adoption and Orphan Care Movement, David Smolin, bepress, publication forthcoming in Regent Journal of International Law, Vol 8, No 2, Spring 2012.
Glad to stumble upon this blog...I had a personal brush with unethical adoption practices (and while they were no way as horrific as what your family has been through), I believe that the entire adoption industry is a misleading practice. In just a few short months, I've been moved from hoping to adopt (thinking it was simply a great thing to do) to learning so much (esp. through the blogosphere) as to the truth behind many adoption stories. I would like to add your blog to my blog roll.
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Jennifer
I can tell you from first hand experience that the Christian adoption movement is a marketing tool for agencies that make up to $30,000 per child. They create literal industries in poor countries and shove pro family based ministries supporting keeping the children in their families to the side of the road. I refuse to participate in these conferences. I also participated in Saddleback children's ministries and know that they are only promoting Rick Warren and their church, not the needs of the children. Thank you for this post. It does my heart good. I would sign my name, but still work in orphan care and am tired of being ostracized for my desire to advocate for the orphans needs and do not need obstacles from those who would prefer I stay silent. Money is the root of all the distortion in this situation.
ReplyDeleteDavid- Thank you for writing on this. It is important that as the church we take off our rose colored glasses and see the very ugly things happening through inter-country adoption.
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